Originally posted by FuzzyPooky:
[b]Don't try to judge
me
What's wrong with you guys? You all dare to claim yourself as an
adult who think wise? Let me get it right for you all, there is no
such a "nice" bf which will attempt to grab your butt on the first
day. He can't even learn to respect the girl in the very first
date. Such guys most probably filled with lots of fantasies. If you
tolerate with such guys, you might hear rape cases coming soon.
Grab the girl butt on the first day is already enough to know what
pattern is this guy. Either they want to attach with you to fulfill
their fantasy or probably sex. You guys said I'm over-reacted, then
when incidents happen, you guys blamed how stupid is the teenager.
Why didn't avoid the guy or report at the first place. You guys
claimed I'm lame, I think you guys need more growing up process to
do.
And what's wrong with my god-damn-name? Pookie or Pooky is the
teddy bear in Garfield. Do you have problems with that?
The reason I created this new account is because I'm banned. I
don't get a reason for being banned. I don't how the moderator
justify things up. Anyway I just move on.
Shock! Shock!
Shock!
They police gave me a call. Eventually this "nice" bf I knew have 2
criminal records! He also admitted that he have the intention to
grab my butt.
He charged for selling pirated cd in 2004
Again, he charged for attempt to steal handphone goods in
2006
For your information, he's 20 this year. Wow, absolute shocking! 2
criminal records! So, the police is waiting for my confirmation to
charge him.
Bottom
line
Should I press charges to him? Should or shouldn't him get this
lesson?
Please take
note
I'm not coming here to offend you guys, but they way you guys
treated me is totally inconsiderate. I'm not here for flame war.
Sorry if I offended some of you guys. Thank you.[/b]
Haha, I don't know what to say. This whole situation is so
unbelievable.
I think you over-reacted. Granted, his groping you was pretty
disgusting, especially on a first date, but calling the police
really makes a mountain of a molehill. You should have just let him
know how offended you were, dumped him and then left it at that.
You also (if his criminal record counts for anything) have
potentially made a vengeful enemy. Perhaps you need to drop the
charges, unoffend him and move on. Take it as a charity case, you
might not want a ruined life on your hands. Or you could just go
ahead with it if you really want to, but it probably isn't worth
your time and money.
Anyway, Pookie translates to Pussy.. So.. FuzzyPookie, Hairy Pussy?
Not a very good nickname to write complaints about molestations
under, haha you might want to change that.
Incidentally, I'm new here so very very curious-- why did she get
banned?